'Is The Woman Who Wants The "Bad Boy" Worth Dating? Read To Find Out'

 There are many ways to define a bad boy.  Some say it is someone who gets into trouble, usually starting it.  Some more astute observers state that it defines a guy who stands by his beliefs and is confident in his convictions particularly if they lead to the good of society.  A guy who is willing to pay the negative cost, even unto himself to get justice, or to defend what is right, even if he has to ruffle some conventional feathers.

There are basically three groups of women. Some girls, while young, gravitate toward the 'bad boy.'  This can be due to mystique, fun or the confidence he exudes.  They may be attracted to his ability to 'raise caine'  or get into conflict, be tuff or cause mischief.  Later they outgrow this mindset.  Others never out grow it.  The third group are never attracted to this dating archetype to begin with.  So which type of woman should you avoid out of these three?  Which type may not have the maturity to be datable? After all, we all have seen 'bad boys' and if they are misguided in their thinking, the havoc they can bring to their own lives and the world around them.

This was paradigm I began to consider last week as I was assaulted in the parking lot of a grocery store for complaining to a cashier about how so many other patrons were not wearing masks.  A man standing in line behind me took exception to my comment and followed me out to my car.  I stood my ground and did everything legally responsible.  He did not and punched me,  I restrained him until some witnesses were able to determine what happened and just a split second enough for the police to arrive.  If the case is not thrown out we will have a court date. One that will proclaim I'm not in too much legal trouble and he........well......it will hurt his future I can tell you that.  SELF CONTROL is one of the most tremendous gifts you can ever give yourself.

Was the guy who hit me a 'bad boy?'  Probably not, more than likely he was mentally ill or really having a bad day and had some type of impulse control disorder.  Some women out there would be attracted to a guy like that.  MEN, THOSE ARE THE WOMEN YOU SHOULD AVOID AT ALL COSTS. THERE IS SOME IMMATURITY THERE THAT WILL NOT TAKE YOU TO THE BEST PLACE IN REACHING YOUR POTENTIAL AS A SPOUSE OR INDIVIDUAL. GUYS, GIVE WOMEN A CHANCE WHO ARE ATTRACTED TO THOSE MEN WHO HAVE PASSION BUT KNOW HOW TO HARNESS IT JUSTLY, PRODUCTIVELY AND DEFINITELY LEGALLY.

*MEN, IF YOU EVER COME ACROSS A WOMAN WHO LOVES MEN WHO EXUDE EQUALITY, ALTRUISM, COMPASSION, WISDOM AND SELF CONTROL AND PUT THEM AT A PREMUIM, THEN DON'T ASK QUESTIONS................YOU MARRY HER!

John 

10/22/2020